As a Robbins-Madanes Strategic Intervention Life Coach, my role is to guide you towards practical solutions and lasting results. Whether you’re looking to enhance your relationship or make meaningful changes in your life, this coaching approach helps you achieve your goals with clarity, purpose, and renewed energy.

Refocusing on What Matters in Your Relationship

In the midst of daily responsibilities—work, children, and other concerns—it’s easy for couples to lose sight of why they fell in love in the first place. Over time, we can become so focused on our partner’s shortcomings that we forget the qualities that first drew us together. One of the ways I support couples is by helping them shift their focus back to what truly matters in their relationship.

Through our sessions, I guide couples to reflect on how they spend their time and attention. I often ask: How much energy are you investing in each other, compared to other areas of your life? Are you prioritizing your personal well-being, health, and connection with your partner, or has work and routine taken over? This awareness can be a powerful catalyst for change.

Once couples become more mindful of how they’re investing their time and energy, we work on small, specific actions that can reignite their bond. Simple shifts in daily habits, like spending quality time together, practicing gratitude, or prioritizing self-care, can make a profound difference. These changes gradually restore a sense of connection and intention, reminding each partner why their relationship is worth nurturing.



When you focus on what you appreciate about each other and actively choose to invest in your relationship, you create a foundation of positivity and warmth that strengthens your bond. This approach fosters a renewed sense of closeness, helping couples feel more connected and aligned with what truly matters.